lessons from sex & the city
i get sad when women keep trying really hard to catch someone's attention despite no signs of give from the other party. when they complain about what a jerk this guy has been recently, i want to say no, he's not being an asshole because he still hasn't asked you out on an actual date. like buerger from sex & the city, i want to say, "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!"but it just makes me irritated if they use me as a negative comparison to bolster their own image. you can use whatever tricks you want to pull to trap the guy--just don't use putting down your own friends as one of them. i don't think miranda ever gossiped to a guy, "but carrie throws all her money away on ridiculous $400 shoes, so don't tease me about frivolous spending!"
i'm not mad. just saying, be careful before your insecurities shine through.
posted by valorie @ 6:22 PM
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6 Comments:
would this post make more sense if i had actually seen an episode of sex & the city? cause i'm not quite understanding... o_O
what! you mean you don't get together with your 3 best guy friends to watch marathons of sex & the city and drink cosmopolitans??? ;o)
sorry, i must be out of that loop... :P
Too funny. Hey-how is your grandmother doing?
Valorie! This is the most valuable lesson i got from SATC. And that book is nice too for getting over situations like that where we are too blind to see.
By the way Buerger was a cool guy despite his "issues".
etchen- she fell into a coma monday. my mother flew back to the states today. but it looks like i won't be flying back to manila after all... thanks for asking..
chloe- i haven't read the book but i love the lesson too. even oprah winfrey did an entire show about it! but u know, i hated the SATC final episode.
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